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做喜歡的事,雖累卻也不言其苦

 

   喜歡追尋進步的美麗, 最近鬼迷心竅的報名了師大進修寫作班,跟基礎班的打底完全不同,第一堂上課就有了以後日子不好過的感覺:對於單字的精準度提高了、同學的組成陣容與目的改變了、作業跟上課閱讀的東西變多了!”It’s going to be a vey tough class though, yet I will try my best to keep up with others classmates. J

   面對新的挑戰,我沒有害怕反而是興奮,他激起了我內心的勝負慾望嗎?我想是吧!沒有什麼事情會比了解自己更重要:我發覺我是個勝負慾很重的人,尤其是在我有信心的領域:在舞台上的時候,總是希望自己表現會是最好的那一個(雖然總是事與願違…)、做瑜珈的時候,總希望自己的筋骨可以是最軟Q的人。(雖然我大腿筋骨超硬…)或許這樣逼自己成長也是個不錯的選擇,不是嗎?!但是總是把自己看成最好了,雖然自信心培養好了,但是卻缺少了謙卑。(畢竟謙虛是中國人的一項美德@0@)「水往低處流,人往高處爬。」我想就是「登高望遠必自謙」的道理。想當個自滿井底之蛙,一直停留在原地踏步?還是當條鮭魚,逆流而上,雖然途中充滿了難關,但你知道你就是想要追尋並挑戰未知的領域!

   記得上次帶602班最後一堂課,一下課便暴走地回辦公室「火山爆發似的開罵!」此時有人提點我:「可是你看起來很開心?」小妹也說:「我覺得你比較像是雙子座-雙重人格:真實的自我與社會的自我!」真實的自我:喜歡自由、個性衝動、說話不經大腦、想到什麼做什麼、喜歡與人分享生命的點滴、喜怒哀樂現於形色、還是喜歡裝可愛或是本身也很可愛(嘻嘻)…。社會的自我:理性大於感性、喜歡獨立、不輕易的對外人打開心防…。當然我就是我,有時或許不能這樣區分,但這樣何嘗不是更了解自己的一步!

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    I participated in a workshop about working hilidays in the UK with my dearest French girls-Aii yeasterday. There was a section called Q&A after the workshop and one of the audience asked a question, "Can you list some culture shocks between Taiwan and the UK?" the woman whom had studied in the UK for two years replied, "Sure, when a guy asked you out or wanna hang out with you, don't think too much. he's just wanna be friend with you and just friends." It dawned upon me that we are just friend and never think too much. haha

   Are there some culture shocks between us? Yes, really are. Somehow i am thinking that knowing you is a lucky thing, for i would practice my English oral and speaking ability, got someone to share my feelings, even got a new one to hang out with. Pretty good, isn't it? :)

    French girls have international views toward everything in lives, and we know that we must step out to experience the world. Therefore, i knew that there do exist different ways toward different people all over the world. As for me, dealing with American, never take their words so seriously. "Wanna have a movie next time? I'll call you back. I got to buy you a drink something!" Just listen and never look forward for it or you would be pretty disappointed. In my point of view, American to whom they are not familiar with will try their best to show their friendlyness and kindness. However, once you wanna move forwad to have a closer relationship, you will know that they are just trying to be polite something. It's hard to get into an American group something in the beginning. In contrast, dealing with Eupean, it would be pretty hard in the beginning. Once they open their mind to accept you, you would experience their kindness and how friendly they were. To say it honestly, i have never been to the USA but i had ever been to Europe for two times. I have to confess that European were really nice to foreigner, espeicially girls.   

    For us, you are kind of dangerous to me, for you have Asian outlook with foreign soul indeed. Somehow Iwill ease my mind and to think in the wrong way. haha, thanks you to my experience and age, i always pull it back on time. thank you for teaching my a new lesson of culture differences. :)


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